5 Romance Tips

Say it with Words

Surprise your mate with little notes found in unexpected places. If your mate travels for work, place a loving note somewhere in their suitcase. Perhaps they have a long commute to work. If so, slip a note saying, “I love you,” in their CD case where you know they will find it. Another recommendation is sticking a note on the bathroom mirror so this will be the first thing seen in the morning. Be creative and have some fun with this.


Make the Men Feel Good

For the man in your life, here are some recommendations for making him feel special:

.. Flirt with him in public places
.. Just once, leave the toilet lid up
.. Lavish him with compliments
.. Tell him how sexy he is
.. Act jealous once in awhile, even if you are not
.. Remind him that he is a wonderful mate, husband, father, whichever applies
.. Tell him how handsome you find him

Make the Women Feel Good

Just like men, woman love feeling good about themselves. These
recommendations might help:

.. Tell her how beautiful she is
.. Compliment her on her many skills (be specific)
.. Just once, leave the toilet seat down
.. Tell her how much she means to you
.. Let her know that she is your best friend
.. Show affectionate to her in front of family and friends
.. Let her know that you find her to be sexy


Listen – Really Listen

Get into a habit of listening to what your mate is saying. Not the kind of listening that you do when you go out or sit at the dinner table, but a different kind of listening. Have you ever overheard your mate make a comment to a friend or family member about something they really want or want to do?
Maybe you heard your boyfriend or husband tell a friend that they would love a certain tool. For no reason whatsoever, make a special effort to get that for him. You might have heard your girlfriend or wife mention a spa that they would love to try. Again, without any reason, surprise her. This shows that your mate is really paying attention to things important to you.


Showing Love

Although hearing the words, “I love you” is special and important, sometimes you wish you could tell your mate as well as hear from your mate those words, but in special and unique ways. Here are some ideas of how this can be accomplished:

.. Rent his favorite movie, even if it is something you do not like, and plan an evening alone where you can be with him as he enjoys his special treat.
.. When he gets out of the shower, hand him a warm, cozy towel just heated in the dryer.
.. When you make him pancakes, first pour the words, “I Love You” on the griddle and cook for a minute to brown. Then, pour more batter over the words to create a round pancake. The result will be a pancake displaying those three special words when you flip it over.
.. While he is out of town, wash his car and surprise him by picking him up in a clean, shiny car at the airport.
.. Take him out to lunch.
.. Have his favorite breakfast on the table along with the morning newspaper.
.. Instead of bugging him to go to the grocery store with you, let him stay home.
.. Display your favorite picture of the two of you on the refrigerator.
.. Buy him a subscription to his favorite magazine.